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Many people never manage to break through to this deep, unconditional love.
Many people instead become addicted to the ups and downs of romantic love. They are there for the emotions. When the feelings end, they go away. Many people enter relationships to compensate for something they lack or hate about themselves. This is a one way ticket to an unhealthy relationship. In this case, love becomes conditional, you love your partner only as long as he helps you feel better about yourself. You are together as long as you give what each other needs. You make him happy as long as he makes you happy. This convention prevents the development of real, deep intimacy and fetters relationships in the tearing agonies of each persons internal dramas.