Member story
Psychological education.
Your woman urgently asks you for something. Lets say we take her to the hospital. But on this day you are very busy. Theres no way you can cancel your plans. Moreover, you understand that she herself can get there by taxi. So you say, sorry, I cant do it. And you begin to retell almost your entire daily routine in the hope that your woman will not be offended. After which you are left with an unpleasant aftertaste in your soul, you feel almost like a traitor. There is no need to feel guilty in those situations when you are sincerely ready to help a person, but cannot do this for objective reasons. And even more so, you dont need to apologize for it.