Member story
I realized a long time ago:
its better to get out of any relationship that has ended, no matter what kind of friendship or love, its better to get out of it calmly, and not crawl out. Under no circumstances should you ask back, or call, begging someone to come back. It will hurt in any case. But it will hurt and stop, but you will retain your self-respect. Its stupid to be offended by people who left - its like being offended by random, albeit very cool, fellow travelers who left your carriage at their station. But your train moves on and there is no way to press the stop valve. And thank God! But you will only find out when you reach the end with those who are really on the same path as you.