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How many women are obsessed with the fear of betrayal, want to insure themselves against it,
and therefore are endlessly in tension, squeezing love and fidelity out of a man like paste from a tube. They control his every step. Like if youre not like that! In my opinion, hypercontrol strategies are terrible self-abuse, living in anxiety and confidence that you can influence everything. And if you can, you should! And now you havent rested for 19 years, but he probably didnt intend to cheat! Or maybe its better not to hold it? Dont cling? Let go of the one who wants to leave, and the one who wants to stay will remain. Is it really necessary for someone who doesnt want it? Is happiness really possible with him?