The only way to break out of the current "I" is to work on yourself right now. There is only you and your goals. Forget about the phrase "I'll have time to do it in the evening" - most likely you won't. There is an opportunity - use it. No - create this opportunity. Write a detailed plan for the day, week, month, year, and follow it relentlessly. Someday you will be very sorry that you didn’t do it earlier.